Our Experts' Q & A

Her Boyfriend Doesn’t Want To Marry Her

Published on Aug 31, 2015

Question

“My bf informed me the other day, after telling me periodically that he didnt
want to marry me that he wouldnt be over everyday. He used to come over for
10 hours everyday. Then he told me he couldnt see me everyday, but he’d be
over if I wanted some grocery shopping, or doctors appointment. He was over
Weds, and Thursday, but has his phone off the hook, or something today. What
should I do? I really love him, and it hurts very much to be gone”.

Answer

“It sounds like you are making your boyfriend responsible for you rather than learning to take responsibility for yourself, and it sounds like he is pulling back from this responsibility. If you want to keep this relationship, then you need to learn to love yourself and share your love with him, rather than trying to get love. You can start by taking our free Inner Bonding course at http://www.innerbonding.com/welcome.”

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Margaret Paul. Ph.D

CO-CREATOR OF INNER BONDING Dr. Paul is the author/co-author of several best-selling books, including Do I Have To Give Up Me to Be Loved By You?, Inner Bonding, Healing Your Aloneness, The Healing Your Aloneness Workbook, Do I Have To Give Up Me to Be Loved By My Kids?, and Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By God? Dr. Paul's books have been distributed around the world and have been translated into eleven languages. Margaret holds a Ph.D. in psychology and is a relationship expert, noted public speaker, workshop leader, educator, chaplain, consultant and artist. She has appeared on many radio and TV shows, including the Oprah show. She has successfully worked with thousands of individuals, couples and business relationships and taught classes and seminars since 1967. Margaret continues to work with individuals and couples throughout the world -- mostly on the phone. She is able to access spiritual Guidance during her sessions, which enables her to work with people wherever they are in the world. Her current passion is working on and developing content for this Website, as well as distributing SelfQuest®, the software program that teaches Inner Bonding® and is donated to prisons and schools, as well as sold to the general public. Margaret is passionate about helping people rapidly heal the root cause of their pain and learn the path to joy and loving relationships. In her spare time, Margaret loves to paint, make pottery, take photos, watch birds, read, ride horses, and spend time with her grandchildren.