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Dear Duana, This New Year’s, I’m resolved to get my husband’s and my sexlife back. We’re best friends with a great sexual history—but for two years, he’s had erectile dysfunction he won’t discuss or treat. Eric says is he’s “fine” with how things are. I think it’s closer to truth to say he’s anxious and […]
how do I handle a distance relationship for 10yrs A[/av_dropcap2Dear James, There exists a lot of controversy in the research about maintaining the integrity of a long distance relationship. There are various barriers to intimacy, and often uncertainty in such relationships. In addition, it may seem easier to idealize a person who is at […]
Debunking the myths about female sexuality In 1960, the birth control pill put women in charge of their bodies and their sexuality. In the following years, The Feminist Movement demanded women get equal opportunity, pay, responsibility and choice. The degree to which society has shifted since then is considerable. However, we somehow still find ourselves living […]
Wise Readers: Last week’s post about Jessica, a woman who is torn between her affair partner and her husband, drew a lot of heated response. Some of it was directed at me, for sharing my opinion. What did people think? How does science address topics like open marriage, and what happens to children post-divorce? Read […]
Could the fantasy bond be causing the shift from helpless love to deep disinterest? Countless couples complain of losing the “spark” in their relationship. Some chalk it up to evolved differences, a slow growing apart, or sheer familiarity. The wave of “deadness” that can submerge a relationship after the first thrilling months or years have […]
Why our sex life changes and what to do about it Your sex life can change a lot throughout one lifetime. It can even change a lot throughout one relationship. Some of these changes can be for the better. Others can feel like they’re for the worse. When these changes occur, many men and women […]
How our attachment style alters our relationships Our attachment style affects everything from our partner selection to how well our relationships progress to, sadly, how they end. That is why recognizing our attachment pattern can help us understand our strengths and vulnerabilities in a relationship. An attachment pattern is established in early childhood attachments and continues to function as a […]
People have many ways of defending themselves against love While many of us may have sensed it intuitively, there is now science behind the statement that “love is all you need.” A 75-year longitudinal study by Harvard researchers recently revealed that love itself is the one true key to a happy and fulfilling life. While love seems […]
How to love more There is always a lot going on between two people in a relationship. But very often, much of what goes wrong in a relationship has to do with what’s going on in our own minds. Most of us have a constant dialogue running in our heads, analyzing our relationship and informing […]
The only person you can change in your relationship is yourself It’s a pretty common consensus that love takes work. Yet, 80 percent of Americans under 30 believe in a soulmate, the idea that there is one perfect person out there just waiting to be found. Even the expression “falling in love” makes it sound like […]
Jealousy most often arises when a person’s need for control is threatened. While jealousy is not the only challenge for people choosing polyamory, and can trouble those in monogamous relationships as well, it’s probably the most common trial faced by those brave souls who dare to share intimately with more than one at a time. While people […]
Here’s how to tell you’ve met yor soulmate The term “soulmate” implies a special affinity, understanding, or powerful bond that exists between one person and another. The ineffable experience of being known by and knowing another lends itself to the mythical image of soulmates as two wandering souls finally reuniting. Why is it that few […]