“My bf informed me the other day, after telling me periodically that he didnt
want to marry me that he wouldnt be over everyday. He used to come over for
10 hours everyday. Then he told me he couldnt see me everyday, but he’d be
over if I wanted some grocery shopping, or doctors appointment. He was over
Weds, and Thursday, but has his phone off the hook, or something today. What
should I do? I really love him, and it hurts very much to be gone”.
“It sounds like you are making your boyfriend responsible for you rather than learning to take responsibility for yourself, and it sounds like he is pulling back from this responsibility. If you want to keep this relationship, then you need to learn to love yourself and share your love with him, rather than trying to get love. You can start by taking our free Inner Bonding course at http://www.innerbonding.com/welcome.”
[Margaret Paul Relationship Toolbox]