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By Anthony BerconiJan 21, 2016
I am a strange person. . . and it is very difficult for me, therefore, to find a soul mate because I am overly complex, and highly misunderstood. . . I like to read. poetry (Baudelaire), anything ethereal, or having to do with String theory, or subatomic particles. . . (but no algebra. . . just theory. . )
I love animals, and try to do my best to be a non-polluting, peace and existence loving lady. . . I like the moon, a lot, and the stars, and I like to paint, and draw, and I make music. . . I cut an album of myself not too long ago. . . homegrown, you know. I play guitar, bass, and piano, and I can sing. . . oh, and I like candles. . .
I love tori amos, david bowie, john tesh, and george winston. . . beethoven. . . all kinds of music. . I love to put the radio up while I drive. and that ‘s that, I suppose. .
You don’t sound strange to me at all. You sound sensitive, beautiful and artistic. You also seem to understand a great deal about science and physics. Because you understand science, you also know that the entire universe is made up of energy. Atoms are energy, we are energy and our thoughts are energetic fields.
Because of this, it’s very important that you modify your view of yourself so that it matches my view of you. Why? Because if you feel strange and odd, you will are sending out energetic signals that say I’m strange and odd. These signals will repel people. They will pick up your sense about yourself and they won’t want to be with you. Hence, you will become convinced that no one wants you. But the reason they don’t is because of the vibes you’re transmitting.
This is called the ‘law of attraction’ in which we draw into our lives the very thoughts and feelings that we transmit! So start seeing yourself the way you are. The way I see you and you will be amazed to discover that you will not only attract your soul mate, you will have to beat suitors off with a stick!
Known to millions as "Dr. Love" through her website AskDrLove.com, Dr. Turndorf founded the web's first and immensely popular relationship advice column in 1995. She consistently attracts new fans and keeps her existing audience engaged through her compassionate understanding as well as her frank delivery and earthy sense of humor. At the same time, she puts her listeners at ease while digging deeply in their psyches and prescribing her signature cure. Dr. Turndorf's multimedia platform allows her to share relevant and timely advice via radio, online, in print and on television. Her radio show, "Ask Dr. Love," can be heard in Seattle on KKNW and on WebTalkRadio, which broadcasts in 80 countries worldwide. Her column entitled "We Can Work it Out," is published monthly online in Psychology Today. Her critically acclaimed books have been teaching readers the hard and fast facts to healing relationships for years. Dr. Turndorf's methods have been featured on national television networks, including CNN, NBC, CBS, VH1 and Fox, and on websites such as WebMD, iVillage, Discovery.com, MSNBC.com. She has also been featured in magazines such as Cosmopolitan, Men's Health, Glamour, American Woman, Modern Bride, and Marie Claire. Dr. Turndorf’s latest Hay House book, Kiss Your Fights Good-bye: Dr. Love's 10 Simple Steps to Cooling Conflict and Rekindling Your Relationship, has been endorsed by New York Times bestselling authors Jack Canfield, Dr. John Gray and John Bradshaw. Since the recent death of Emile Jean Pin, her beloved husband of 27 years, Dr. Turndorf has discovered that relationships do not end in death. His miraculous manifestations, often in front of witnesses, have proven to her that there is life after life and love never dies. As a result of her experiences, Dr. Turndorf has developed a groundbreaking form of grief therapy that diverges from the traditional Western approach (grieve, let go and move on). By contrast, her method guides people to reconnect and, if needed, make peace with their departed loved ones. Her latest Hay House book on this topic is entitled Love Never Dies: How to Reconnect and Make Peace with the Deceased. To understand fully what Old Scars are, how they are formed, how they affect your relationships, and how to heal them, read my book Love Never Dies: How to Reconnect and Make Peace with the Deceased. For Free Gift details or to receive a sneak peek of Love Never DIes, visit the book page: http://askdrlove.com/page/love-never-dies-how-reconnect-and-make-peace-deceased.