Communication
Relationship Started On Facebook Ends In Confusion
Should he pursue this girl he met on Facebook?
I took this girl on a date last weekend for the first time meeting her. We went to see a movie (bad choice). It was her idea. We laughed and talked and even made eye contact throughout the movie. After it was over she hurriedly left to the parking lot…It was about 12 and she may have had a curfew. She thanked me and said she had fun, we hugged and she said she would txt me when she could do it again. I let a day pass and then sent her a happy Valentine’s day txt she replied the same and then I asked how her day was and received no response. Another 3 days without contact went bye and she txtd me on Thursday. We exchanged brief catch up txts saying we were both free for the weekend and then I asked if she wanted to chill this weekend and the replies stopped…I am good about reading women but she is throwing me for a loop. Dr. Love PLEASE help me! I just need to know if she’s interested or playing games so I can move on… P.S (We met on Facebook and would talk some (where I got her #) but I got serious with another girl and she got a boyfriend. We’re both single now but the conversations aren’t the same…They’re not as relaxed and playful and I seem to be the one working for her now instead of vice versa like it used to be… lol) Signed: Dazed & Confused
I think you need to return to the way it was in the beginning and let her be in control of the frequency of contact, when you get together, and so on. Let her feel in charge. That should ease her anxiety, which will enable her to gradually come closer to you. Let me know how you do.
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