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Susan Pease Gadoua, L.C.S.W.

As a child of divorced parents, Susan knows first-hand how disruptive an unhappy marriage and subsequent marital dissolution can be. When her mother and father split in 1981 (on their 28th wedding anniversary), marriage counseling was unheard of and emotional divorce support virtually nonexistent. Her own experience, combined with years of working with couples in distress – both in striving to save their marriage or transition out of it – led Susan to become passionate about offering support to people at perhaps one of the most crucial junctures in their lives. In 2000, Susan founded the Transition Institute of Marin and began providing information and counseling to this underserved population. Books Eight years later, Susan wrote, Contemplating Divorce, A Step-by-Step Guide to Deciding Whether to Stay or Go (New Harbinger Publishing, Inc. © 2008), a book that provides objective guidance to those struggling in a rocky marriage as well as invaluable information on how to navigate the divorce process. Contemplating Divorce became a San Francisco Chronicle best-seller its first week in publication. In 2010, Susan completed a meditation book for those challenged by difficult emotions during and after divorce entitled, Stronger Day by Day, Reflections for Healing and Rebuilding After Divorce. Susan’s latest book, The New I Do: Reshaping Marriage for Skeptics, Realists and Rebels, is a collaboration with journalist Vicki Larson. You can learn more about this project by clicking on The New I Do page. Susan has helped hundreds of people gain clarity in their relationships. Her private therapy practice consists of couples, individuals (local and distance therapy clients) and the many relationship or divorce support groups she runs. Susan in the Media As an often-featured writer for the Huffington Post Divorce page, Susan also writes a regular column for PsychologyToday.com and Examiner.com. Susan has been a guest on the CBS Early Show as well as numerous radio shows across the U.S. and Canada and has also been featured in: The Wall Street Journal, USA Today, Psychology Today Magazine, Divorce Magazine, The View From the Bay and more.

Stories By Susan Pease Gadoua, L.C.S.W.

Divorce

Are You Just Staying Married For The Kids?

By Susan Pease Gadoua, L.C.S.W.Jan 3, 2016

Staying married for the kids with a parenting marriage might be just what you need Every...
Divorce

How To Cope With Divorce During Your Last Married Holiday Season

By Susan Pease Gadoua, L.C.S.W.Dec 27, 2015

Are you wondering how to cope with divorce during what should be the most joyful time...
Marriage

Why is Sex in Marriage So Important?

By Susan Pease Gadoua, L.C.S.W.Nov 2, 2015

5 Reasons We Need to Pay Attention to the Sex in Marriage Trends According to Jake...
Divorce

Do You Know How To Navigate Safely In A Divorce Storm?

By Susan Pease Gadoua, L.C.S.W.Aug 26, 2015

Knowing how to navigate the ins and outs of a divorce makes all the difference Less...
Divorce

How A Storm Gave Me Empathy For People Seeking Divorce Counseling

By Susan Pease Gadoua, L.C.S.W.Aug 12, 2015

A storm made me reflect on the challenges of people seeking divorce counseling I just got...
Divorce

An Innovative Way To Stop Divorce

By Susan Pease Gadoua, L.C.S.W.Jul 5, 2015

Now you can stop divorce by creating a “New ‘I Do!” (This article was inspired by a recent interview...