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Harriet Lerner, Ph.D.

Dr. Lerner is one of the world’s most respected voices in the psychology of women and family relationships. She is the author of 11 books published in 35 languages. These include The Dance of Intimacy, Marriage Rules, and The Dance of Anger, a New York Times bestseller that has helped rescue men and women from the swamps and quicksands of difficult relationships. Dr. Lerner hosts a blog for Psychology Today.

Stories By Harriet Lerner, Ph.D.

Marriage

What Is A Good Marriage And Have I Got One?

By Harriet Lerner, Ph.D.Dec 7, 2015

What does a good marriage look like? The answer may surprise you. The stereotypical view of...
Approval

Over Apologizing Women – Why Do They Do It And How Can They Stop It?

By Harriet Lerner, Ph.D.Nov 9, 2015

Stop over apologizing like you went to Miss Manners Apology Finishing School! “I wish you could...
Conflict

This Is What It Took To Stop A Couple Arguing

By Harriet Lerner, Ph.D.Nov 1, 2015

Sometimes the unexpected can stop a couple arguing Years back I saw a high powered, professional...
Disagreements

How To Deal With A Difficult Partner Using The #1 Skill

By Harriet Lerner, Ph.D.Oct 20, 2015

Knowing how to deal with a difficult partner or parent is essential to create peace and...
Relationship issues

Relationship Happiness By Children In A Sandbox

By Harriet Lerner, Ph.D.Oct 15, 2015

You can learn a lot about relationship happiness by watching children play in a sandbox! Marriage...
Libido

Do You Worry About How Your Libido Compares?

By Harriet Lerner, Ph.D.Oct 15, 2015

Why drawing any comparisons between your libido and that of others is a pointless exercise that...