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Sheryl Paul, M.A.

As the daughter of two psychotherapists,Sheryl grew up with the language and theories of psychology running through her blood. As a young girl, she vacillated between dreaming about one day being either a writer, a therapist, or a midwife. Having found the confluence of these three arts through writing about and spiritually midwifing people through life’s transitions, including the transition of transforming anxiety, self-doubt, and depression to serenity, self-trust, and joy, Sheryl feels deeply blessed to be living in the heart of her calling. While her writing and counseling work have primarily focused on the specific transitions of getting married and becoming a mother, in recent years she has felt called to broaden her practice to include the lifelong transition of life in all its beauty and complexity. For whether on the verge of leaping into marriage, getting a divorce, suffering through anxiety or depression, struggling with an addiction, or birthing a new identity as a mother, Sheryl believes we find the same issues of self-trust and control appearing again and again. The story line may change, but the spiritual seeker quickly finds that the areas that need attention reappear at deeper layers of the spiral on life’s journey. Sheryl utilizes an effective, 6-step process called Inner Bonding® cradled within the spiritual context of transitions to create a powerful framework through which she can assist clients in finding their own voice, exploring the stories and beliefs that interfere with hearing this voice, confronting their need to control and the perpetual practice of learning to surrender, and guiding them as they make their way through life’s challenges and joys. Her decade of working with clients in transition combined with years of a loving marriage (not without continual consciousness and hard work!) and the privilege/challenge of being a mother have solidified her firm belief that, while guides are often necessary to help us find our way through the labyrinths, no one outside of ourselves and a spiritual source has the answers. In fact, SheryI believes that, whether we’re talking about parenting, marriage, or anxiety, there are no definite answers; there’s only the process of discovering what’s right for you. In 1997, Sheryl graduated from Pacifica Graduate Institute, a depth psychology program founded upon the teachings of Joseph Campbell, Carl Jung, James Hillman, and the study of dreams, archetypes, myths, and the myriad ways that the unconscious manifests in daily and nightly life. As a writer, poet, and epic dreamer, she encourages her clients to explore their own creative outlets as pathways for connecting to Spirit and finding their own truths. In 1999, she launched her unique business, Conscious Weddings, and a year later published her first book, The Conscious Bride, which broke the taboo of discussing the underbelly of the wedding transition. In 2003, her second book, The Conscious Bride’s Wedding Planner, was published, and in 2004, she began working with impending and new mothers through Conscious Motherhood. Since 1999, Sheryl has counseled thousands of people worldwide through her private practice, her bestselling books, her Home Study Programs and her website. She has appeared several times on “The Oprah Winfrey Show”, as well as on “Good Morning America” and other top media shows and publications around the globe. To sign up for her free 78-page eBook, “Conscious Transitions: The 7 Most Common (and Traumatic) Life Changes“, visit her Home page. Sheryl looks forward to hearing from you.

Stories By Sheryl Paul, M.A.

Love

Do You Know You Are Essentially Good?

By Sheryl Paul, M.A.Jul 9, 2015

You like every other human being are essentially good! A baby is born. You gaze upon...
Fantasy love

Do You Think True Love Is Just Like A Bowl of Oatmeal?

By Sheryl Paul, M.A.Jul 9, 2015

Learn about the difference between true love and the fantasy-love that our romance-addicted culture propagates One...
Fear

The Hope And Fear In Love

By Sheryl Paul, M.A.Jul 9, 2015

Fear in love inevitably walks hand in hand with hope. Why? Even if we come from...
Anxiety

Why Was She So Afraid Of Love?

By Sheryl Paul, M.A.Jul 7, 2015

Were her narcissistic parents responsible for her being afraid of love with her devoted partner? Why...
Inner Bonding

I’m Not In Love With My Partner

By Sheryl Paul, M.A.Jul 6, 2015

When saying “I’m not in love with my partner” means something completely different In a moment...
Emotional intimacy

How We Can All Enjoy Fearless Love

By Sheryl Paul, M.A.Jul 6, 2015

Find out why we are afraid to love and how we can conquer our apprehension and...