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Isadora Alman, M.F.T.

Isadora Alman, M.F.T., is a California licensed marriage and relationship therapist, a Board-certified sexologist, author and lecturer. Her syndicated sex and relationship column "Ask Isadora" ran in alternative weekly papers worldwide for 25+ years. Web surfers can find her columns on her online free interactive Sexuality Forum www.askisadora.com (link is external). She is the author of two collections of Q & A's from columns: Let's Talk Sex and Ask Isadora, as well as Sex Information, May I Help You?, a peek behind the scenes of a sex help phone line which still flourishes in San Francisco today. Doing It: Real People Having Really Good Sex is a collection of helpful hints and titillating tidbits culled from column readers and Forum web site users. Her novel Bluebirds of Impossible Paradises: A Sexual Odyssey of the 70's is out in paperback on Amazon.com. She has also contributed chapters to several books including Herotica (Down There Press), Dick For A Day (Villard NY), The Moment Of Truth (Seal Press) and Single Woman Of A Certain Age (Inner Ocean Publishing, Inc.) Isadora has been a talk show host and frequent TV and radio talk show guest, and a lecturer and workshop leader on a variety of communications topics. She conducts her private psychotherapy practice in the San Francisco Bay Area.

Stories By Isadora Alman, M.F.T.

Libido

Do You Like To Be Sexually Active Or Passive?

By Isadora Alman, M.F.T.Dec 20, 2015

The old joke goes: The doctor asks the patient “Are you sexually active?” “No,” says the...
Communication

You Need To Be A Mind Reader To Explain Human Behavior

By Isadora Alman, M.F.T.Dec 20, 2015

Why trying to understand the motives behind human behavior is well nigh impossible In my more...
Compatibility

How To Be Compatible With Anyone

By Isadora Alman, M.F.T.Dec 20, 2015

The truth is you can be compatible with any partner if you don’t insist on being...
Attitudes

Is Talking About Sex Taboo For You?

By Isadora Alman, M.F.T.Dec 20, 2015

Talking about sex is something that many people find difficult. Do you? Do you have a...
Anxiety

Do You Have A Recurring Nightmare? Interpretation May Help

By Isadora Alman, M.F.T.Dec 20, 2015

Nightmare interpretation may help you to find out what you are telling yourself when you wake up...
Attitudes

Sexual Intercourse From The Sublime To The Ridiculous

By Isadora Alman, M.F.T.Dec 19, 2015

It’s clear that people’s views and attitudes towards sexual intercourse can be vastly different and in...